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It Does Not End With Us

It Does Not End With Us

Linda Juarez

It Ends With Us is a film adaptation of Colleen Hoover’s bestselling novel of the same name, directed by Justin Baldoni. The movie explores the delicate and often devastating issue of domestic violence, a theme that Hoover’s novel famously addresses with raw honesty. However, the film’s portrayal of this heavy subject matter has stirred mixed reactions, particularly in its treatment of the nuances and gravity of domestic abuse.

Justin Baldoni, known for his directorial work on Five Feet Apart and as a co-producer on the movie Clouds, chose to adapt It Ends With Us due to its powerful narrative and emotional depth. Baldoni has spoken in interviews about his desire to bring stories to the screen that challenge societal norms and spark important conversations. In choosing to adapt this novel, Baldoni aimed to shed light on the complexities of domestic violence, a subject often shrouded in silence and stigma.

Blake Lively delivers a strong and nuanced performance as Lily Bloom, the protagonist caught in a cycle of love and abuse. Lively captures the vulnerability and strength of a woman who is both deeply in love and increasingly aware of the dangerous path her relationship is taking. Her portrayal adds a layer of empathy and realism that makes Lily’s journey compelling, even as the movie’s narrative choices sometimes undermine the severity of her experiences.

Domestic Violence Portrayal
One of the critical aspects of both the novel and the film is the portrayal of domestic violence. In the novel, Hoover does not shy away from the brutal realities of abuse, presenting it as a complex and multifaceted issue that cannot be easily resolved. The book is lauded for its ability to depict the internal conflict that victims face—the tension between love and fear, hope and despair.

However, the film’s portrayal has been criticized for somewhat playing down the severity of domestic violence. This downplaying seems to stem from a desire to make the story more palatable for a wider audience, but it results in a narrative that can feel less impactful than its source material. While Baldoni’s direction attempts to balance the romantic and tragic elements of the story, the result is a film that, at times, feels like it glosses over the darker aspects of the story in favor of a more digestible narrative.

When compared to other films that tackle domestic violence, such as Sleeping with the Enemy (1991) or Enough (2002), It Ends With Us takes a more subdued approach. These earlier films did not shy away from showing the physical and emotional toll of domestic violence, often with intense, dramatic scenes that highlighted the perilous situations the protagonists faced. In contrast, Baldoni’s film seems to focus more on the emotional journey and the psychological aspects, but at the expense of diminishing the horror of the abuse itself.

Unlike the more raw and unfiltered depictions in films like The Color Purple (1985) or Precious (2009), which left a lasting impact by showing the grim realities of abusive relationships, It Ends With Us sometimes feels like it is holding back. This might make the film more accessible, but it also risks diluting the urgency and seriousness of the issues it seeks to address.

Linda Juarez is a film critic. She has collaborated in an array of magazines and blogs. Her forthcoming book Latine in Hollywood will be publish in 2025.

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